Wednesday, January 21, 2009

Plateau

Ok, now we’re going to get right into direct genital
stimulation. But first, read the following before you
begin:

“3 Before Me” Rule

The 3 Before Me rule basically says that you want to make
sure she has 3 orgasms before she starts pleasing you. Why
“3”?

• Most women don’t have an orgasm from intercourse (at
least not right away). So what we’ll be doing is
“setting her up” so that once you do have intercourse,
it’ll be easier for her to orgasm. And even if she
doesn’t have an orgasm from intercourse, because she’s
already experienced 3 of them previously, she’ll still
be satisfied!
• Reciprocation Principal-generally, this means that if
you do something generous for someone, they’ll feel
obligated to do something generous for you. In this
case, you’re giving your partner the gift of female
orgasms, and she’ll want to return the favor. What
she reciprocates varies, but you’ll find that once
it’s her turn to start sexually stimulating you, it’s
going to be GOOD.
• You’ll probably be the only guy (ever!) in her life to
give her 3 orgasms in one night. That will make you
extra special in her mind! She’ll absolutely love you
for it, and…she might even brag to her friends about
you
• Once she has 3 orgasms, it really doesn’t matter if
you can’t last long while having sex. She’s really
not going to care if you orgasm too fast…I mean heck,
she just had 3 of them.
• Make a note that this is really a loose rule. It
doesn’t have to be 3 all the time; it could be 1, 5,
or even 30. But the general principal applies: you
want to please her FIRST before she pleases you.

The 3 orgasms are going to flow through the sequence of:

1. Clitoral Orgasm
2. G-spot Orgasm, and finally
3. Blended Orgasms


It’s important that you always start off with the clitoral
orgasm. The clitoris is very sensitive, and at first, it’s
going to be the most responsive (and easiest part of the
body to bring a woman to an orgasm). Also, stimulating the
clitoris first actually “primes” the G-spot...in other
words, the G-spot will be more responsive and easier to
find after clitoral stimulation.

Once she has an orgasm from clitoral stimulation, you’ll
move on to stimulating the G-spot (and giving the clitoral
head a “break”). At this point, her orgasm should come
faster than the first one. Also, the “feel” of the G-spot
orgasm will feel different to her than a clitoral orgasm.
It’ll feel deeper, and there will be more involuntary
contractions.

Lastly, the blended orgasm, you’ll be targeting both the
clitoral head AND G-spot. This will be the most intense of
the orgasms…and…if she didn’t ejaculate from G-spot
stimulation, she might here.

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