Clitoral Orgasms

Remember at this point after you’ve massaged your partner,
she’s pretty aroused, and her clitoris might be erect by
now. From here, we’ll move onto oral sex.

By far, the best tool to stimulate the clitoris is the
tongue. But, you’re not going to feverishly lick her
clitoris right away…you’ll go through a series of steps
designed to intensify the pleasure once you focus on her
clit.

Also, you’ll be using a little known technique that will
let you use your fingers as a sort of “thermometer” to
figure out exactly if you’re licking the right spot to
bring her to an orgasm.

The Right Position For Oral Sex

Before we begin, you have to be in the right position for
oral sex.
There are many different ways that you can choose to enter
into oral sex with your partner, but it really helps to
know which are worth the effort. When it comes to getting
yourself positioned, you need to be able to comfortably
apply consistent, rhythmic pressure over an often extended
period of time. She, on the other hand, has to be
positioned so that she’s able to relax into her arousal.
Perhaps one of the biggest reasons that more of us men
don’t go down on our lovers as often as they might like
results from the physical strain and pain that stems from
entering into oral sex from the wrong position.
Her Body:
• Flat on her back (not arched)
• Legs spread a comfortable distance apart (but not too
wide-it’ll be easier for her to use her pelvic
muscles)
• Legs bent at the knees
• Her vulva and labia should be pointed upwards, at an
angle, towards your mouth
• She should be completely at ease and relaxed, with
nothing to do but focus on the physical and mental
pleasure you’re about to bring her.

Your Body:
• Position your body so that it is in a straight line
with her body
• Your nose should be lightly buried in her mons
• Upper lip resting on the front edge of her pubic bone
• Your upper lip should be above her clitoral head
• Tongue should be able to rest on the vaginal entrance

Once you’re both in this position, you should be able look
at each other in the eyes while you’re performing oral sex
on her.
If you’re finding that your neck is straining in this
position, what you can do is place a pillow underneath her
buttocks. This will elevate her pelvis, bringing her vulva
closer to you. You won’t have to bend your head back as
much, taking off the strain from your neck.

I used to use a pillow all the time, but I found that a
pillow becomes ineffective and a pain-in-the-ass after a
while because it compresses, I had to constantly buy new
pillows because they were soaked from her ejaculations, and
typically found myself without a pillow at night!

Now I use a Liberator, and I only use it during sex. It’s
ultra durable, holds its shape, and is an overall great
investment, not only for oral sex, but for optimizing the
angles of penetration during sex. Check it out here.

Now that you’re both in position, let’s get started.


Step 1: First Contact

You want to make the first lick to be a memorable one. The
Setup will build more sexual tension and anticipation for
your first lick, and it’ll leave her wanting more.

The Setup

1. Perform a series of kisses on her left outer lip, from
top to bottom. Take it slow, and don’t rush!
2. Next, do the same thing on the right side
3. Perform a series of kisses on her left inner lip, from
top to bottom.
4. Next, do the same thing on the right side
5. Take about 1 second per kiss, and try to cover the
entire area with your kisses (in other words, you
don’t want to kiss at the top, leave a huge gap, and
kiss the bottom of the lip)


The Long Lick

1. Place your tongue on her frenulum (the base of her
vagina).
2. VERY SLOWLY, lick upwards, running past her vaginal
opening, and inner lips
3. As you past the clitoral head, lighten up the pressure
from your tongue.
4. Keep on going up until your tongue is directly over
her clitoral hood. You should feel her clitoral shaft
underneath the hood with your tongue at this point.
Apply more pressure on the shaft, and slowly move your
tongue from the left side to the right side of her
clitoral hood…slight stimulation, but you’re going to
take it away
5. Now move your tongue downwards towards the base.
6. After you’ve reached the frenulum, let your tongue
rest upon the entire length of her vaginal entrance
and vulva.

Key point to remember:

• Don’t rush this! Think of your tongue as a snail,
moving super slow across her vulva.
• The timing you want to aim for is about 10 seconds up,
2 seconds pause on her clitoral hood, and then 10
seconds down.
• Tip: as you’re licking, count 10s-2s-10s in your head!
Step 2: Establishing Rhythm

During this step you’ll work with 3 licking patterns.

Pattern 1: Lick-Rest Cycle
1. Starting with your tongue on the base of her vaginal
entrance, slowly lick up until you’ve passed the
clitoral head and are on top of the clitoral hood,
then lick downwards to the starting position. It
should take 5 seconds to complete a full lick.
2. With a flat, still tongue, let it rest on her vulva
for 5 seconds.
3. Repeat these steps 20 times.

Pattern 2: 5 Half-way Licks, 1 Full Lick Cycle

1. Lick up half-way, and then lick back down. You won’t
be going over the clitoris during this lick. Repeat 5
times.
2. Add in one full lick, going over the clitoris.
3. Repeat these steps 20 times

Pattern 3: Random Half-way and Full Licks
This time, your tongue is going to go over the clitoral
head randomly. This will drive her crazy, because your
licking “pattern” should be unpredictable!
When you’re at this pattern, be playful, and really focus
on teasing her clitoris.
1. Lick up half-way, and then lick back down. Repeat
anywhere from 1-10 times
2. Add in one full lick, going over the clitoris.
3. Repeat these steps 20 times
Ok, by now her clitoral head should be hard and erect.
With all of the teasing you’ve been giving her has built up
enough tension to release her orgasm, and she’ll be ready
for the next step.


Step 3: Secret Twitch Method

This method will help you figure out what the exact
location, speed, and pressure your woman will like best.
Once you find the optimal location, speed and pressure,
you’ll maintain that until she has an orgasm!

As I mentioned earlier, women have involuntary contractions
when they orgasm, but what you want to look for is the
contractions in the vagina. You’ll be using your fingers
to feel for these contractions.

You’ll “calibrate” one indicator at a time, starting with:
• the best location on her clitoris, then
• the optimal pressure of your tongue, and finally
• the right licking speed


Steps

1. Lick one or two of your fingers (index, or index
and middle fingers) to lubricate them.

2. Slowly insert your finger(s) into her vagina,
about 2-3 inches in, with your palms facing up.
3. Find the G-Spot. It will be on the ceiling of her
vagina, and it’ll have a bumpy texture to it. Once
you find it, just leave the pad of your fingers “on
the button”. Don’t stimulate this area (yet)

Ok, now that your fingers are in there, what you want to do
is feel for any contractions in her vagina. It will feel
like her vagina is squeezing your fingers momentarily.
Sometimes the squeeze is soft and barely noticeable…so
you’ll have really pay attention.

4. With your tongue, slowly lick around, on top, to
the side of her clitoris. What you’re trying to do
here is to find a “spot” that makes her vagina
squeeze.

5. Once you found the spot, apply different pressures
with your tongue. You want to find the best pressure
that will cause her vagina to squeeze.

6. Lastly, apply different licking speeds on that
spot, using the same pressure.

7. When you’ve found all of those, hold steady!
Don’t change locations, pressures or speed (even if
she says so). Maintain what you’re doing, no matter
what

8. When she's nearing orgasm her vaginal muscles will
start to clench hard around your fingers, and it will
hold its’ grip longer

9. Keep a steady pace, rhythm and pressure - under no
circumstances change what you're doing, or you run the
risk of having to start from scratch!

10. Right before she has an orgasm, she’ll squirm and
want to move around…but…your job is to maintain what
you’re doing until her orgasm is complete!

11. Orgasm #1!


Once she has a clitoral orgasm, we’re going to transition
into G-Spot orgasms.