Sunday, January 18, 2009

Female Ejaculation


Sometimes when a woman has an orgasm, she may actually
ejaculate. This is especially true for orgasms as a result
of G-spot stimulation.

This happens because of the Para-Urethral Glands, which is
a female version of a man’s prostrate gland. The fluid the
para-urethral glands produce is similar to that produced by
the male prostate and, as in the male, passes into the
urethra – and in some cases may pass into the vagina. The
glands fill with fluid during sexual arousal and may be
felt through the vaginal wall.

Many people who experience a squirting orgasm think that
this liquid is pee, or even vaginal lubrication, but
studies of the fluid ejaculated through the urethra have
shown a different chemical composition than urine…it’s
clear, and if you actually smell it, you’ll find that it
doesn’t smell like urine at all! (Doesn’t smell like
anything at all really).

To minimize the amount of urine that could possibly come
it, have her urinate before you start your sexual activity.
Also, have some towels laying on the bed to soak up any
fluids that come out.

What If She’s Really Worried That She Might Pee?

Women sometimes will get the feeling that they need to
urinate when their G-spot is stimulated. This is perfectly
normal, however, the problem comes in when she becomes
concerned and self conscious about wetting the bed.

This can drive her in a state of arousal and relaxation, to
the point of stress and anxiety. If this happens, she may
not be able to have an orgasm at all at this point. If
she’s trying hard to hold it in, she’s not focusing on the
sexual pleasure you’re giving her.
I can’t stress enough that in order for these tips to work,
your lover needs to be relaxed and completely comfortable
with you. This means that you’ll need a strong enough
emotional bond for her to feel safe “letting go.” If she
feels inhibited, she probably won’t be able to ejaculate

Along with the precaution of urinating before any sexual
activity, another key factor in female ejaculation (and
orgasms) is relaxation. This is why the steps of massaging
and having a relaxing atmosphere are included in this
system.

She needs to be completely relaxed, and be perfectly
comfortable if she does happen to ejaculate. If she gets
the feeling that she needs to pee, let her know that she
can “let it all out”. She won’t be peeing the bed, but it
will still be really wet once the ejaculate gushes out.

If she’s still concerned, you can try stimulating her in
the bathtub so any fluids that do come out doesn’t soak up
the bed.

Female Ejaculation Training

A trick you can use to “train” your partner into become
more comfortable with “letting go” is to go with her to the
bathroom whenever she’s urinating.

If she hasn’t urinated with you in the same room, she might
feel anxious, and have a hard time urinating. Let her get
comfortable with you to the point where she can easily pee
while you’re there.

Once she releases her PC muscles and starts urinating,
reassure her and comfort her by saying, “Good girl” (or
whatever line you want to use). Associating the
encouraging words along with your presence will allow her
to feel comfortable enough to let go and urinate. Do this
until she’s perfectly comfortable with you being there when
she’s urinating.

Now, whenever you’re stimulating her G-spot, say “Good
girl” (or whatever line you used in the bathroom). Because
you’ve already trained her to the point where she feels
relaxed urinating in your presence while you’re encouraging
her, she won’t have the previously held inhibitions, and
she’ll end up “letting go” and possibly ejaculating!
Lastly, another way to “train” a woman to ejaculate is by
strengthening her PC muscles. Check out the Special Report
“How to Guarantee Orgasms” where you’ll find a detailed
guide.

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