How to Create (Sexual) Attraction

The first step in the Seduction phase is creating
attraction.

NOTE: Since I’m assuming you already have a partner that
you’re having sex with, I’m not going to dive into the
topic of “how to attract and date women” (you can find a
few helpful websites in my resources section).

But the attraction tips I’m going to share with you can
work on any woman, but is specifically designed for your
partner.

How to Use Eye Contact To Create Attraction

The very first thing that draws your partners’ attention to
you is eye contact. Her response to the right kind of eye
contact is automatic: attraction.

The level of attraction can vary from women to women. Eye
contact can simply spark a bit of sexual interest to full
blown sexual desire where she’s physically aroused and
wants to have sex with you.

Generally, making and holding eye contact with someone else
shows that you’re at ease with the other person, and that
you’re not intimidated. When your partner sees that you’re
making and holding eye contact with her, she’s going to
feel that you’re confident about yourself…and…the wheels of
attraction are going to start turning.

Tips:

• What you want to do is look into her eyes whenever
you’re talking, if she’s walking past you, or whatever
situation is appropriate. (You don’t want to
constantly look into her eyes while the both of you
are watching a movie…that would be weird).
• When you’re holding the eye contact with her, don’t
have a wide-eyed stare (you want to her believe you’re
a confident man, not a creep!).
• Instead, you want to be gazing in to her eyes.
To do this:

1. Open your eyelids so that they’re about 75% open. If
they’re open 100% (i.e. You’ve opened up your eyes as
wide as possible), you’re going to have that scary
looking stare. If they’re open too small, you’re only
going to look tired, or even intoxicated. At the 75%
mark is the right “look”. You’ll have that “seductive
look” that you might see in the movies.

2. Tilt your head downward slightly, so that your chin is
closer to your chest. This slight tilting of the head
will communicate that you’re sexually interested…this
will push her buttons, and she’ll start feeling this
too! (On the other hand, if you tilt your head
upwards instead, you’re expressing that you’re looking
down at her, and she’ll think you’re a cocky bastard.
Don’t do this.)

Here’s a few examples of the seductive eyes look:



3. Try not to blink too much. If you have to, blink very
slowly. If you’re constantly blinking while keeping
eye contact, that’s a sign of nervousness, and she’s
going to feel that “vibe” from you. Once this
happens, the attraction will be lost. No blinking or
slow blinking is a sign of confidence.

4. Lastly, don’t break eye contact until she does!
Subconsciously, she will think that you’re the one in
control of the relationship, and that you are the
“man”.