tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-20501189453081080952024-03-07T22:03:29.729-08:00Female Orgasm Secrets And PleasureAdamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.comBlogger45125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-48412644035153023322009-02-08T17:15:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:16:48.850-08:00IntroductionLet me start by saying that I’m an ordinary guy, just like <br />you. My penis isn’t the largest in the locker room. The <br />women out there don’t mistake me for Hollywood’s latest hot <br />celebrity. I’m not rich, or famous, I’m not a “playboy”, <br />and I’m not exactly what you’d call a genius, though I <br />wasn’t born yesterday either. <br /> <br />But I have been blessed with some pretty insightful, and <br />more importantly, authentic, wisdom to share that has the <br />potential to open doors to uncharted territory in your sex <br />life. I can’t offer you increased size or a magical potion <br />to incite lust and desire in every woman you meet. <br /> <br />But, if you make a solid commitment to read and practice <br />the wisdom you’ll find over the next several chapters, I <br />can promise that the special woman in your life will be <br />purring like a kitten, eager and available for erotic <br />romping more often than you’d dared to imagine. Before <br />long, she’ll be bragging about how great you are in bed, <br />and your buddies will be begging you to share your secrets! <br /> <br />You see, I’m on a mission in life to provide the keys <br />needed to open the doors for a woman’s sexual fulfillment <br />to as many men as desire to possess them. <br /> <br />You and I both know that sex and the ultimate peak of <br />orgasm – both on a regular schedule – are an important, no, <br />essential, part of a healthy, normal life. That’s because <br />having an orgasm releases a powerful chemical cocktail <br />that, among other things: <br /> <br />• Reduces stress <br />• Reduces tension <br />• Clears your mind <br />• Releases you to concentrate on other things besides <br />sex and <br />• It makes you feel damn good! <br /> <br />In all reality, the act of orgasm is Mother Nature’s way of <br />regulating our raging testosterone and keeps us sane, happy <br />and smiling. <br /> <br />However, interrupt that “regular schedule” and it’s a whole <br />different scenario. Once you cross that 72-hour threshold <br /><br />without an orgasm, you become restlessness, anxious, <br />irritable, and aching balls enter the scene. It isn’t very <br />much longer after that before something’s gotta give! <br /> <br />Lucky for us guys, reaching an orgasm isn’t rocket science. <br />Most of us have been doing it since middle school and by <br />now, we’ve got it down to an art! <br /> <br />But for the women out there, it’s a whole different story…Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-61133813606295712522009-02-07T17:16:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:17:26.415-08:00The Elusive Female OrgasmKnowing you’ve made a woman cum is supremely satisfying, <br />but not nearly as wonderful and amazing as the orgasm your <br />lover is experiencing. Unfortunately, it’s nearly <br />impossible to explain. <br /> <br />Masters and Johnson’s, a leading sexual authority, after <br />many interviews with countless women, described it like <br />this… <br /> <br />“Women often describe the sensations of an orgasm as <br />beginning with a momentary sense of suspension, <br />quickly followed by an intensely pleasurable feeling <br />that usually begins at the clitoris and rapidly <br />spreads throughout the pelvis. The physical sensations <br />of the genitals are often described as warm, electric, <br />or tingly, and these usually spread throughout the <br />body. Finally, most women feel muscle contractions in <br />their vagina and lower pelvis, often described as <br />“pelvic throbbing.”’ <br /> <br />But, if you ask a typical woman to describe an orgasm, and <br />you’ll probably hear a lot of words and sounds and <br />descriptions that lead you to believe that the female <br />orgasm is a mystical, spiritual thing…It is!! <br /> <br />Could you imagine making it through next year, much less <br />every year, without being able to orgasm yourself? <br />Then imagine going through all of the motions, over and <br />over, without having an orgasm. Talk about blue balls! <br /> <br />It probably wouldn’t take you too long to throw your hands <br />up in disgust and decide to swear sex off for good. <br /><br />You would be frustrated…and that’s exactly how a woman who <br />has never experienced an orgasm before feels. <br /> <br />This is why many women who are in long term relationships <br />don’t want to have sex as often as before. She’s <br />frustrated, doesn’t experience pleasure from sex, and <br />treats sex like another chore. <br /> <br />But that’s exactly what’s going on in the lives of <br />countless women out there. Something’s got to change, but <br />what? <br /> <br />The fact is, for the most part, you’ve got a lot left to <br />learn about how to sexually satisfy a woman.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-92179177733256688842009-02-06T17:17:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:18:09.846-08:00Why Don’t We Know More Female Orgasms?Truth of the matter is, most guys don’t have a clue about <br />female orgasms. <br /> <br />Most men simply aren’t getting a quality sexual education. <br /> <br />If you want to be a plumber, you simply go to a trade <br />school, graduate, and POOF! – you’re a plumber. Why can’t <br />it be that simply when it comes to becoming an excellent, <br />satisfying lover? <br /> <br />Where did you learn about sex? Whispering with your buddies <br />over contraband cigarettes and alcohol? Stumbling upon your <br />Dad’s stash of pornographic movies and magazines? Those <br />ridiculous “sex ed. classes” they gave in school? <br /> <br />Let’s take a look at this “education”… <br /> <br />First off, looking back, it’s probably safe to assume that <br />at least 75% of the sex stories your buddies offered you <br />were complete, unadulterated bull-shit, pure and simple. <br /> <br />Secondly, the porn industry isn’t the “real deal.” The <br />scenes are scripted, the women paid to perform and most of <br />those orgasms are faked (at least by the women). Sure, you <br />might have picked up a few useful positions or techniques, <br />but if porn is your only sex education, you definitely need <br />to keep on reading.<br /><br />That leaves us with school-sponsored sex education, <br />probably the most well-funded (and successful) campaign of <br />propaganda to convince kids and teens across the globe NOT <br />to engage in sexual activity! <br /> <br />Your teachers were too busy threatening you with the <br />nightmarish possibilities of unplanned pregnancy and STD’s <br />and dulling your senses with complex (and totally not-sexy) <br />charts and diagrams. <br /> <br />I’m willing to bet no one was sharing the goods on the G-<br />spot, clitoris or the potential for female ejaculation! <br /> <br />Sure, it’s important to know about condoms, birth control, <br />AIDS and HIV, but what you really wanted (and needed) to <br />hear about was the fine art of cunnilingus, giving multiple <br />orgasms and other super-secret insider tips. <br /> <br />And that’s what you’re about to learn in this manual!Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-75736000077387644752009-02-05T17:18:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:19:14.607-08:00What This Manual Is AboutThis manual is a plain-and-simple, instructional guide on <br />how to give women orgasms. The Female Orgasm Black Book is <br />something that you can refer to time and time again. <br /> <br />I’ve written it with a male reader in mind, but the <br />information in this manual is intended to help men, women <br />and couples achieve female orgasms and have a more <br />fulfilling sexual relationship. <br /> <br />The core section (The Female Orgasm Black Book) contains <br />details of female orgasms, along with the overall “system” <br />or “strategy” you’ll employ. I’ve also included a few <br />techniques to illustrate what needs to be done, and when. <br /> <br />The other parts of the manual can be looked at as the <br />“toolbox” of techniques. You’ll find a variety of <br />different sexual techniques you can use to “plug-and-play” <br />into the overall system. <br /> <br />OK, enough introductory talk…let’s get down to business!Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-22262337436779314362009-02-04T17:19:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:19:43.848-08:00Keys to SuccessOne of the main things that make this book so much better <br />than all of those other sex books is that I’ll take you <br />through a two-step approach that addresses the whole sexual <br />experience, instead of merely a portion. <br /> <br />The two aspects that this manual is going to focus upon <br />are: <br /> <br />1. Strategy (the mindset and overall framework of the <br />female orgasm) <br />2. Tactics (techniques and the “how to’s”) <br /> <br />The biggest mistake that you can make is to focus on the <br />how-to without paying proper attention to the best mind-set <br />and strategies of the female orgasm. <br /> <br />In reality, the strategies are the key to unlocking the <br />power of the techniques. You’ll understand that while the <br />techniques by itself can be effective, the mind-numbing, <br />noisy, wet, toe-curling orgasms lies largely in the <br />strategy you use when applying the techniques. <br /> <br />So, in order to get the most out of these tactics, you’ve <br />got to pay close, intimate attention to the strategiesAdamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-24674051922029684992009-02-03T17:19:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:20:35.068-08:00MindsetYour state of mind (and your partners’) can really make or <br />break the chances of her having an orgasm… <br /> <br />The Wrong Mindset <br /> <br />How do you approach your lover’s orgasms? <br /> <br />You probably enter into sex with the mindset and goal of <br />“giving an orgasm.” <br /> <br />It’s this approach that leads too many guys on a wild goose <br />chase for the “perfect” strokes and techniques. It leaves <br />you blindly seeking out every tip and trick out there, <br />furiously testing them out on your lover. <br /><br />I hate to break it to you, but this is the wrong mindset if <br />you truly want to “give” an orgasm. <br /> <br />It sounds contradictory, I know. But it’s true, and here’s <br />why… <br /> <br />When you head into the bedroom with the goal of “giving” <br />her an orgasm, you’re setting up expectations in both of <br />your minds. This approach will create pressure on both you <br />and your partner that an orgasm MUST happen. Once you add <br />pressure to have an orgasm, it is virtually guaranteed to <br />add some negative stress and anxiety during your intimate <br />times together. <br /> <br />And…as this stress grows, it will actually make it much <br />harder for her to cum. <br /> <br />Have you ever seen a football or basketball player “choke <br />up” during a game? <br /> <br />The fans, the crowds, the competition build up so much <br />pressure for the athlete to perform well that their focus <br />is diverted from the game and to their anxieties. <br /> <br />Ultimately, they wind up screwing up. Too much focus and <br />drive on your part to “give” an orgasm can have the same <br />effect on your partner. <br /> <br />If the stress and pressure get too high, she may be left <br />unsatisfied. And because you have set this “goal” to have <br />an orgasm in a first place, and now that the goal is un-<br />met, both you and your partner will be left feeling <br />disappointed. <br /> <br />If this approach is sustained, you may wind up anchoring <br />these feelings of disappointment to your times of physical <br />intimacy – carrying it over into your next sexual <br />encounter, further increasing her “performance anxiety.” <br /> <br />The Right Mindset <br /> <br />Here’s the paradox… <br /> <br />If you want to give an orgasm, you have to NOT focus on the <br />orgasm! <br /><br />Instead of focusing on the goal of achieving an orgasm, <br />start focusing your attention on the pleasure of the <br />process. <br /> <br />The key is, if you focus on giving pleasure, and making <br />sure she’s feeling good, that orgasm will come (no pun <br />intended.)Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-12346470630918522632009-02-02T17:20:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:20:57.031-08:00CommunicationNot every technique will work on every woman. One woman may <br />prefer one particular stroke or rhythm more than the next <br />woman does. <br /> <br />To find out what really makes your woman tick, you’ve got <br />to open the lines of communication. You need to find out <br />what she likes as you’re applying a technique. That way, <br />you can optimize your rhythm, speed, stroke etc. to match <br />what she likes best. <br /> <br />Aim for open verbal communication, but if your lover isn’t <br />as brave speaking her mind (especially when you’re face is <br />buried between her thighs) you can opt for more non-verbal <br />communicative methods, such as squeezing hands or body <br />response. <br /> <br />Communicating well with your partner can make it much <br />easier to bring her pleasure, and ultimately, more and <br />better orgasms.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-34085381670460543982009-02-01T17:21:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:21:41.989-08:00EscalationOne of the biggest mistake men make is moving too fast, too <br />soon. It works fine for us, but for a woman, she might not <br />be ready yet. <br /> <br />For guys, we can come to an orgasm very quickly. Men <br />basically need to get aroused, stimulated, and we’re done. <br /> <br />Women, on the other hand, need a gradual escalation to come <br />to a point of orgasm. <br /> <br />With each of the stages of sexual response (you’ll find out <br />about this in an upcoming chapter), the intensity of the <br />stimulation is increased.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-10711681402529274762009-01-31T17:21:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:22:04.933-08:00Anticipation and TensionAnticipation (otherwise known as “teasing” and <br />“excitement”) is a powerful and effective tool to use. <br />In order to multiply the effects of your sexual techniques, <br />you’ll have to add anticipation into the mix. <br />Anticipation will get her more aroused, give her a greater <br />chance to have an orgasm and focuses her mind on the <br />physical pleasure she’s experiencing. <br /> <br />And…while you’re building up anticipation, at the same time <br />you’re cranking up sexual tension as well. <br /> <br />The sexual tension will have to be released (in the form of <br />an orgasm). <br /> <br />The key to building up anticipation is to focus on the <br />areas surround the main “target” before you actually hit <br />the target. <br /> <br />For example, you can do this by rubbing her inner thighs, <br />buttocks and hips before actually touching her vagina. <br />While you’re rubbing those body parts, she’s getting wetter <br />and wetter by the second, anticipating you to finally move <br />onto her vagina. At the same time, the tension is growing <br />within her and at some point, it’ll have to be released. <br /> <br />A note: when you’re building up the anticipation in her, <br />it’s going to build up in you as well! It’s going to be <br />your job to maintain self control, and keep the escalation <br />at the right pace.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-84319615558984537002009-01-30T17:22:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:22:38.854-08:00RelaxationA woman has to be completely relaxed to have an orgasm. <br /> <br />If she has her mind on her job, self-conscious about how <br />her body looks, trying to have an orgasm, or whatever the <br />case may be, she’s not going to be relaxed. She’ll be <br />tensed, and her body won’t allow her to release an orgasm. <br /> <br />Your job? <br /> <br />To help those troubles melt away and disappear (even if <br />only temporarily) with your words, touch, attitude and preparations. <br />Your lover must be totally and completely <br />relaxed and free from tension. <br /> <br />The only tension she should be feeling is sexual tension!Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-35931833405990094042009-01-29T17:22:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:23:08.683-08:00Give Before You ReceiveBefore receiving any sexual pleasure from her, you have to <br />make sure she receives sexual pleasure from you first. <br /> <br />Why? <br /> <br />It shows that: <br /> <br />1) You have control of your sexual desires <br />2) She’ll be in a more “ready” state to have an orgasm <br />while having intercourse, and <br />3) After she has an orgasm, she'll be ready and <br />willing to reciprocate to the best of her abilities! <br /> <br />Seriously, if you can compare the quality of the blow job <br />she gives you, the one performed without her experiencing <br />an orgasm FIRST, will, ironically, SUCK compared to the <br />blow job she gives you after she RECIEVES an orgasm. <br /> <br />Sex goes the same too... <br /> <br />Go ahead and test this out for yourself if you don't <br />believe me.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-80711557914828203582009-01-28T17:23:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:23:48.244-08:00Tips for the Woman in Your LifeNow I’d like to take a few moments to address the special <br />woman in your life. You can invite her over to the screen, <br />print out the page and tuck it into her briefcase or bring <br />it up in your next sexual conversation… <br /> <br />1. Allow yourself to let go. Don’t feel selfish or <br />sluttish; distracted or unworthy. Don’t tame or subdue <br />yourself. Don’t hold anything back! <br /> <br />2. Don’t feel afraid to get a little verbal. Quit biting <br />your tongue or holding your breath. Let go and moan, <br />groan or sigh if you want to. Don’t force it or get <br />too theatrical, but the man in your life will love to <br />hear the sounds of your pleasure escaping your lips. <br /> <br />3. If you find yourself constantly stressing over hygiene <br />issues like scent or taste or cleanliness, try <br />incorporating a bath or shower early on in your <br />schedule to prepare and improve your comfort level. <br />Even better if you can invite him to join you! <br /> <br />4. Strive to gain greater comfort with your body and what <br />turns you on. Take initiative to learn what really <br />drives you insane with desire and then learn to <br />communicate those hot buttons to the man in your bed. <br />What do you fantasize about? What really turns you on? <br /> <br />5. Learn to believe your lover when he tells you he loves <br />to pleasure you and make you cum – he means it! And <br />he’s also telling you the truth when he swears up and <br />down that he loves to eat your pussy! There are few <br />things in this world that will give a man a sense of <br />accomplishment or satisfaction than making the woman <br />he cares about cum…Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-66581100801938016442009-01-27T17:23:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:24:21.970-08:00The Oxytocin FactorOxytocin is one of many chemicals that play a significant <br />role in orgasm and sexual response. It’s a hormone that is <br />secreted by the pituitary gland and cases muscle <br />contractions and sensitizes the nerves. While oxytocin <br />plays a part in our orgasms too, it’s believed that it’s <br />even more important in a woman’s sexual pleasure. <br /> <br />Not only does this hormone play a large part in the <br />contractions that wrack a woman’s womb and vaginal walls <br />when she cums, research has shown that increased oxytocin <br />production in a woman contributes to more powerful, intense <br />orgasms. <br /> <br />Oxytocin also plays an important part of a woman’s <br />emotional state and stimulates emotional pleasure and <br />feelings of intimacy. It’s often referred to as the <br />“cuddling hormone” because it’s this chemical that <br />initiates feelings of connection, bonding and intimacy with <br />your lover.<br />Stronger orgasms and emotional fulfillment – it’s no <br />surprise why this chemical hormone is so vital to a woman’s <br />healthy sexual response! <br /> <br />In later chapters you’ll discover exactly how to release <br />this chemical to make her feel more connected to you, and <br />want to have sex with you more often.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-75232459308108795182009-01-26T17:24:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:25:21.462-08:00Keys to Success in ActionI’m providing you with quite a bit of information. It’s all <br />well and good if you can read and remember the techniques <br />and concepts, but if you don’t apply them, you might as <br />well not have wasted your time or money on this book. <br /> <br />Make a solid commitment to not only read this book, but to <br />put the principles I share with you into practice in your <br />every day sex life. <br /> <br />Team up with your lover and let her know what you’re <br />reading up on. Ask her to work with you and convince her to <br />agree to offer you honest feedback on the new things you’ll <br />be trying out. <br /> <br />Believe me - she’ll thank you for it later!Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-10882216904812618162009-01-25T17:25:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:25:56.694-08:00Female Sexual Anatomy and Other Erogenous ZonesIn this chapter you’ll learn: <br /> <br />• Female sexual body parts that are crucial to sexual <br />pleasure, and where to find them <br />• Other body parts vital to arousal <br /> <br /> <br />The female sexual organs comprise one of the most intricate <br />and sensitive nerve networks in the universe, and it’s <br />yours for the discovering. In this chapter, we’re going to <br />get up close and personal with the ins and outs of the <br />female sexual anatomy and response. <br /> <br />I’ll break it down two different ways: namely, the external <br />anatomy (vulva) and the internal anatomy (vagina). We’ll <br />begin with the external structures, since it’s here that <br />we’ll find that amazingly sensitive clitoris. The key to, <br />arguably, just about every single orgasm any woman has.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-12644519701921321712009-01-25T16:26:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:30:15.624-08:00External Female Sexual AnatomyThe Clitoris: <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-GthHOEoI/AAAAAAAAABo/EoGjlfrFz7g/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 321px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-GthHOEoI/AAAAAAAAABo/EoGjlfrFz7g/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300603402979250818" /></a><br /><br />The clitoris is a small, highly sensitive organ that is <br />very important to female sexual response. You can almost <br />think of it as a “mini-penis”. <br /> <br />There are 2 main parts to the clitoris (externally): <br /> <br />1. The shaft <br />2. The glans (or the clitoral head) <br /> <br />The glans is visible, sticking out like a small lump. The <br />shaft disappears into the body beneath the clitoral hood, <br />which is a layer of tissue that passes around the clitoris. <br /> <br />The clitoris varies in size for different women, much like <br />penis size vary in men. <br /> <br />Women have been blessed with a sex organ with no <br />reproductive purpose – it’s only function is receiving <br />pleasure. It has over 8,000 nerve endings which are <br />intricately networked with the nerves throughout the pelvic <br />region. <br />Although I’ve labeled it as an “external” organ, most of <br />the clitoris is actually hidden inside the body. <br /> <br />The shaft of the clitoris extends into the body, and then <br />splitting into two legs form an upside down “V” (the <br />clitoral crura) which lie on both sides of the vaginal <br />opening. <br /> <br />But the key feature of the internal portion of the clitoris <br />is the fact that the clitoris surrounds the urethra (the <br />passage where urine exits the bladder). <br /> <br />What does this mean? <br /> <br />It means that the pleasurable sensations from stimulating <br />the “G-Spot” (the area on the upper wall of the vagina, <br />below the urethra) is through contact with the inner parts <br />of the clitoris! <br /> <br />Also, this can explain the “vaginal orgasm” (orgasm through <br />vaginal penetration), since the interior parts of the <br />clitoris is stimulated.<br />Mons Pubis: <br /> <br />The mons pubis is the fatty pad of tissue that’s covered by <br />pubic hair. It lies on top of the pubic bone, and on top <br />of the inner clitoral structures. <br /> <br />Inner Lips (Labia Minora): <br /> <br />The labia minora are the fleshy hairless inner lips that <br />lie on either sides of the vaginal entrance. The inner <br />ips come together at the top forming the clitoral hood. l<br /> <br />Outer Lips (Labia Majora): <br />The outer lips are rounded pads of fatty tissue lying <br />on either side of the vaginal entrance. <br />Fourchette: <br /> <br />You’ll find it at the bottom of the vaginal entrance where <br />the inner labia meet. <br /> <br />Perineum: <br /> <br />The perineum, more commonly referred to as the “taint”, is <br />the area between the vaginal opening and the vagina. <br /> <br />Anus: <br /> <br />Although she might disagree with you, the anus is a highly <br />erogenous zone. But, to stimulate it doesn’t require <br />penetration. The anus has a high concentration of nerve <br />endings, and can feel pleasurable when stimulated. <br />Remember though, that any anal play requires special <br />attention to hygiene, as the anus and rectum contain (and <br />can spread) bacteria.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-8642310515170038242009-01-25T15:30:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:37:16.869-08:00Interior Female Sexual Anatomy<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-IByPbf_I/AAAAAAAAABw/jlPJYfTvh7I/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 393px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-IByPbf_I/AAAAAAAAABw/jlPJYfTvh7I/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300604850686099442" /></a><br /><br />Vagina <br /> <br />The vagina is a tube shaped organ where the penis is <br />inserted during sex (we all know this one!) <br /> <br />But what you might not know is that most of the nerve <br />supply of the vagina to the lower 1/3, near the entrance. <br />In other words, the most sensitive area of a woman’s vagina <br />is near the front. <br /> <br />On the other hand, the deeper 2/3 of the vagina contains <br />almost no nerve endings…so…it’s insensitive to stimulation <br />(a woman can tell you that she’ll have feelings of deep <br />pressure though). <br /> <br />What does this mean to you? <br />It means that, even if you have a short penis, you can <br />still give pleasure to your partner while having sex, <br />simply because the back of the vagina just isn’t as <br />sensitive as the front. <br /> <br />Cervix <br /> <br />The cervix is located at the back of the vagina, and is the <br />opening to the uterus. <br /> <br />Although the cervix has no sexual function, you should be <br />aware of it during intercourse. The cervix is sensitive to <br />pressure, and you could actually bruise it during sex if <br />you’re thrusting too hard! <br /> <br />If you have a long penis, then chances are you’ll be <br />hitting the cervix as you’re thrusting in. Some women <br />enjoy it while others will tell you that it’s irritating. <br />If that’s the case, you might need to change your thrusting <br />angles or sexual position.<br />G-Spot: <br /> <br />Locating the G-Spot…<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-IdUh63fI/AAAAAAAAAB4/mRwSO_226-M/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva12.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 324px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-IdUh63fI/AAAAAAAAAB4/mRwSO_226-M/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva12.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300605323746926066" /></a><br /><br />The G-spot is located about one and a half to two inches <br />up, on the anterior (toward the front) wall of the vagina, <br />at about 12 o’clock, or really anywhere between 11:00 and <br />1:00. <br /> <br />As you begin your explorations, start with inserting your <br />forefinger gently inside of her, curving and hooking it <br />behind the pubic bone, and then moving it forward, in the <br />“come-hither” motion. <br /> <br />Now with your fingers, move them in a “zig-zag” pattern. <br />Essentially what you’re doing is scanning the ceiling of <br />the vaginal wall for her G-spot.<br />Once you feel a small mound of spongy tissue that ranges in <br />size from that of a nickel and quarter - and having a rough <br />texture different that the immediately surrounding tissue - <br />you’ve found it. <br /> <br />The G-spot swells up and gets bigger the more she’s <br />aroused, so if you’re having trouble finding it, chances <br />re, she might not be aroused enough. <br />More about the G-Spot… <br /> <br />If you can manage to master the secrets of G-spot <br />stimulation, you’ll be in great shape with your lovers, <br />likely claiming the honor as one of (if not the most) <br />satisfying and amazing lovers they’ve ever had. <br /> <br />That’s because G-spot orgasms tend to be felt at a deeper <br />level and more intensely than clitoral orgasms alone. They <br />also offer the additional spiff of being able to occur <br />consecutively, with no “established” upper limit. And if <br />you really get it down, she might even ejaculate. And what <br />can be better than making your woman become a wetter? <br /> <br />These are the key secrets that separate the men from the <br />boys. Unfortunately, it’s actually a safe estimation that <br />less than 1% of the world’s population of men is able to <br />repeatedly find, and them properly stimulate, their lovers’ <br />G-spots. <br /> <br />Urethral Sponge: <br />Some people think that the urethral sponge and the G-spot <br />is the same thing, while others think that they’re totally <br />different. In any case, stimulating this area can cause <br />massive pleasure, and female ejaculation! <br /> <br />The urethral sponge is a spongy tissue and surrounds the <br />urethral canal. It’s important because of 2 reasons: <br />1. Filled with nerve endings <br /> <br />The urethral sponge is filled with nerve endings, so <br />stimulating it will be highly pleasurable a woman. <br /> <br />2. “Skenes Glands” <br /> <br />This is the key to female ejaculation. <br /> <br />When stimulated, the Skenes glands (also known as the <br />“female prostate”) produces a clear ejaculatory fluid that <br />gets released when a woman has an orgasm. <br /> <br /> <br />A-Spot: <br /> <br />The A-Spot (sometimes known as the AFE-zone-Anterior Fornix <br />Erogenous Zone or Epicenter) is a patch of sensitive tissue <br />at the inner end of the vaginal tube between the cervix and <br />the bladder. <br /> <br />Unlike the G-spot, which is in the shallow part of the <br />vaginal depths, the A-spot is found all the way in. <br />Penetrate using your middle finger, maneuvering up and all <br />of the way to the back. You’ll find it just in front of her <br />cervix, where there’ll be either a bit of tenting or <br />ballooning of the vaginal walls in that area. <br /> <br />Also, unlike the G-spot where the texture is rough, the <br />texture of the A-spot is smooth. <br /> <br />To stimulate the A-spot, you can use the fingering method <br />mentioned above, or rear-entry sexual positions, as well as <br />frontal positions where you can hike her legs up for good, <br />deep thrusting. <br /> <br />Opening the Lines of Communication <br /> <br />Even if your lover isn’t comfortable telling you what she <br />wants, where she wants it and for how long, the two of you <br />have to be close enough and open enough to offer important <br />feedback and encouragement. <br />G-spot orgasms are markedly different than other orgasms, <br />and it’s a good idea to prepare your partner for just how <br />different it might be. The more you prepare her, the more <br />relaxed and comfortable she’ll be entering the realm of the <br />unknown. The first thing you should suggest to your lover <br />is that she oral pleasure to the bathroom and attempt to <br />pee. <br /> <br />Some of the sensations caused by G-spot stimulation will <br />make her suddenly feel like she has to urinate. By going a <br />head and using the bathroom before heading to the bedroom, <br />you’ll prevent her from worrying about peeing. Otherwise, <br />she won’t let go completely, and if she can’t let go, she <br />probably won’t cum. <br /> <br />Even after doing a preliminary bathroom break, she may <br />still be worried that she’s got to pee. Tell her not to <br />worry, that’s perfectly normal. Also, be sure to let her <br />know that it is physiologically impossible for her to pee <br />when at peak arousal. Coach her that when the urge to <br />urinate begins to come over her, not to fight that feeling. <br />Alert her to ride the wave, push through the fear. If she <br />can make it through, she can get to the reward at the end – <br />floating and falling, losing herself in your touch, her <br />body wracked with wave after wave after wave of pleasure.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-49067817229112618562009-01-25T14:37:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:38:38.172-08:00Other Erogenous ZonesThere is much more to your lover’s sexual network than <br />what’s in between her legs. Her entire body, from the tip <br />of her toes to the top of her oral pleasure, abounds with <br />opportunities to pleasure her. Just a few of those <br />erogenous zones include: <br /> <br />The Neck <br /> <br />Sexy and sensitive, the neck is ideal for, well, necking! <br />Kissing, nuzzling, suckling and licking, as well as <br />nibbling and massaging, are great ways to get her in the <br />mood. But be careful – hickies are tacky. Start slow and <br />then increase your intensity. <br /> <br />Her Ears <br /> <br />The human ear contains bundles of nerve endings that equate <br />to increased sensitivity. Capitalize on that by massaging<br />them, kissing them, tickling them with your breath and <br />whispering in them to really drive her wild. <br /> <br />Her Lips and Mouth <br /> <br />Once things start heating up, don’t neglect those kisses. <br />Kiss her, deeply, passionately. Nibble her lips every now <br />an then. Remembering to make up can really fire up your <br />erotic playtime. <br /> <br />Her Scalp <br /> <br />Because of the shield of hair that most likely covers your <br />lovers oral pleasure, the skin of the scalp can be <br />incredibly sensitive to direct touch. Massage her scalp, <br />run your fingers through her hair, brush her hair, look for <br />ways to pleasure her in this manner too. <br /> <br />Breasts <br /> <br />Aside from being incredibly sexy, breasts are also <br />incredibly sensitive. There are some women out there who <br />report being able to achieve orgasm from breast stimulation <br />alone! Stroking, fondling, kissing, nibbling and tweaking <br />the breasts and nipples are just a few ways you might want <br />o give the twins a little extra attention. t<br /> <br />Her Ass <br /> <br />While the anus is sensitive (don’t believe me, try giving <br />her a rim job!), here I’m talking about the actual flesh on <br />her bottom. The skin can be highly sensitive, and spanking, <br />stroking and kissing or gently biting the flesh can really <br />make her toes curl! <br /> <br />Other erogenous zone areas include: <br /> <br />• Feet and toes <br />• The small of her back <br />• Behind her knees <br />• Collarbones and shoulders <br />• Her belly – especially the imaginary line that runs <br />from her bellybutton to her clit.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-40800079355359450282009-01-25T13:38:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:41:25.062-08:00The Female Orgasm Blueprint<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-JkSkIE2I/AAAAAAAAACA/gxviWTuIX4k/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva123.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 362px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-JkSkIE2I/AAAAAAAAACA/gxviWTuIX4k/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva123.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300606542990021474" /></a><br />What you’ll learn in this chapter: <br /> <br />• The Orgasm Blue Print…what it is, how it works, and <br />why you need it <br />• Changes that happen in a woman during each step of the <br />female sexual response. <br /> <br /> <br />The “Orgasm Blue Print” is the strategy to female orgasms. <br />It a 4 phase “battle plan” designed to release a woman’s <br />orgasm. <br /> <br />The blue print is broken down into 4 “Phases”, and 5 <br />distinct “Stages”. <br /> <br />They are: <br /> <br /> <br />Phase 1: Seduction <br />Stage 1: Desire <br />Phase 2: Sensations <br />Stage 2: Excitement <br />Stage 3: Plateau <br />Phase 3: Surrender <br />Stage 4: Orgasm <br />Phase 4: Reflection <br />Stage 5: Resolution<br />Now, I have to admit, I can’t take credit for the overall <br />“outline” of the blue print. This model is based off of <br />the “Circular Model of Female Sexual Response”, developed <br />by Dr. Beverly Whipple and Dr. Karen Brash-McGreer.<br /><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-JkSkIE2I/AAAAAAAAACA/gxviWTuIX4k/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva123.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 362px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-JkSkIE2I/AAAAAAAAACA/gxviWTuIX4k/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva123.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300606542990021474" /></a><br /><br />As you can see from the diagram above, it looks impressive <br />and informative, but…it lacks the steps to bring about an <br />orgasm in the first place! <br /> <br />So, what I have done is taken this overall framework, and <br />added the practical, technical, nitty-gritty instructions <br />on how to get from one stage to the next (and ultimately an <br />orgasm). That’s where the sexual techniques come in (as <br />you’ll soon find out). <br /> <br />Here’s a modified version of the Circular Model of Female <br />Sexual Response, which I call the “Female Orgasm <br />Blueprint”:Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-14862575939407084702009-01-24T17:41:00.000-08:002009-02-08T17:43:30.138-08:00Female orgasam Blueprint<a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-KIqls47I/AAAAAAAAACI/Vr1w0v_e9VE/s1600-h/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva1234.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 329px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-KIqls47I/AAAAAAAAACI/Vr1w0v_e9VE/s400/images-image_popup-ans7_vulva1234.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300607167914369970" /></a><br /><br />It’s probably a little easier to understand than the first <br />diagram, but I’m sure you have some questions about it. <br /> <br />First, what I want to do is paint broad strokes and give <br />you a general overview of each phase and its stages. On <br />top of that, I’ll show you what happens in a woman’s body <br />during each of these sections (and knowing this, you’ll <br />know what stage she’s in, and know if she’s having a real <br />orgasm or not!) <br /> <br />Following the chapters, we’ll dig deeper in each section, <br />and I’ll teach you the techniques you’ll be using in each <br />stage of the blue print. <br /> <br />And finally, once you’ve gone over the details, I’ll <br />provide you with a step-by-step plan (using this blueprint) <br />that you can use to give your partner orgasms.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-15453199683483669692009-01-24T16:43:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:03:04.211-08:00The 4 PhasesPhase 1: Seduction <br /> <br />Believe it or not, the path to female orgasms begins OUT of <br />the bedroom. <br /> <br />For a woman to have an orgasm, she has to be horny…and to <br />get horny, she has to have some sexual desire in the first <br />place…and for her to have sexual desire, she has to be <br />attracted to you. <br /> <br />And that’s the goal of the “Seduction” phase…is to get your <br />partner sexual desire up so she’s ready for the next phase. <br /> <br />Stage 1: Desire <br /> <br />Desire is made up of 2 distinct parts: Initial Desire, and <br />Sexual Desire. <br /> <br />1. Initial Desire (Attraction) <br /> <br />The initial desire is when a woman is attracted to <br />you. She can be a total stranger you meet at the <br />mall, and if you two make eye contact, she might be <br />attracted to you. <br /> <br />Or…she could be your girlfriend or wife, and because <br />of that, she’s already attracted to you <br />(unfortunately, this isn’t the case all the time <br />though). <br /> <br />Now, because of the scope of this book, I’m assuming <br />that you already have a sexual partner, (or that you <br />can easily get one) and you’re both ready and willing <br />to have sex. In other words, you already have someone <br />who is attracted to you, or you’re someone who can <br />easily obtain attraction from other women. <br /> <br />Because of this, I’m focusing mainly on sexual desire <br />(discussed next) and all other things that happen in <br />the bedroom. <br /> <br />To fully cover the topic of attracting the opposite <br />sex would take another book!<br /><br />So, if you’re a lonely, single guy who needs to know <br />how to attract women (in other words, create that <br />initial desire)…or…if you’re already in a relationship <br />but your partner has lost the attraction to you, take <br />a look below: <br />2. Sexual Desire <br /> <br />The second stage is Sexual Desire. Sexual desire is <br />when a woman wants to be with you sexually…in other <br />words, she’s horny! <br /> <br />And when she’s horny, she’ll be openly receptive to <br />you touching her in a sexual way. On top of that, her <br />body will be more responsive to the sexual techniques <br />you’ll be using.<br />Phase 2: Sensations <br /> <br />Now that she wants to engage in sexual activities with you, <br />she’ll be ready for Phase 2: Sensations. <br /> <br />This is a large section that covers 2 distinct stages: <br />Excitement, and Plateau. <br /> <br />Stage 2: Excitement <br /> <br />During the excitement stage, you’ll be getting her <br />physically and mentally relaxed (so it’ll be easier for her <br />to release her orgasm), creating arousal and transition <br />into building up anticipation and enough sexual tension so <br />she can have an orgasm. <br /> <br />The “tools” you’ll be using to get her relaxed will be a <br />massage, and labial massage. <br /> <br />Most of the couples I’ve talked to don’t even consider <br />relaxation or sexual tension in their love making. <br /> <br />Big mistake. <br /> <br />If you miss these 2 steps, it’s going to be a lot harder <br />for her to have an orgasm.<br />What You’ll See During the Excitement Stage: <br /> <br />Overall: <br />• Increased heart rate <br />• Increased breathing rate <br />• Sex Flush-Her face, breasts, hands, soles of the feet, <br />and other parts of her body may become more red <br />(doesn’t happen in all women though) <br />• Muscle tone increases-she’ll feel more tense <br /> <br />Breasts: <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-K0xVpI3I/AAAAAAAAACQ/0AGiO9TDzBI/s1600-h/vagina1.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 253px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-K0xVpI3I/AAAAAAAAACQ/0AGiO9TDzBI/s400/vagina1.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300607925640307570" /></a><br />• Nipples become erect <br />• Slight increase in breast size <br />• Veins become more visible <br /> <br />Genitals-Internal: <br />• Vagina becomes lubricated <br />• Upper 2/3 of the vagina expands <br />• Cervix and uterus pulls up<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LIU49mkI/AAAAAAAAACY/AWNY0tT-dB8/s1600-h/vagina2.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 235px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LIU49mkI/AAAAAAAAACY/AWNY0tT-dB8/s400/vagina2.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300608261601204802" /></a><br />Genitals-External: <br />• Inner lips start to swell and open up <br />• Outer lips flatten out and spreads outwards <br />• Clitoris becomes larger and erect <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LaJG7JNI/AAAAAAAAACg/s4sjAQ59vM0/s1600-h/vagina3.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 233px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LaJG7JNI/AAAAAAAAACg/s4sjAQ59vM0/s400/vagina3.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300608567676183762" /></a><br />Stage 3: Plateau <br /> <br />The plateau stage is when you make direct stimulation with <br />her genitals. <br /> <br />You’ll start off slow, and gradually escalate the pace <br />until she’s reached her peak, and is ready to have an <br />orgasm. <br /> <br />What You’ll See During the Plateau Stage: <br /> <br />Overall: <br />• Further increase in breathing rate and pulse rate <br /> <br />Breasts: <br />• Breast size increases further <br />• Areola (the darker circle surrounding the nipple) <br />swells and becomes darker. It can lead to the <br />appearance of the nipple flattening out<br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LwOUo-UI/AAAAAAAAACo/UPLbN6_jT7I/s1600-h/vagina4.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 249px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-LwOUo-UI/AAAAAAAAACo/UPLbN6_jT7I/s400/vagina4.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300608947033012546" /></a><br />Genitals-Internal: <br />• Increase lubrication <br />• Size of the vaginal entrance becomes smaller. It’ll <br />feel “tight” as you enter her vagina. (But since the <br />inner 2/3 of her vagina has expanded, it’ll feel like <br />there’s a huge amount of space in there). <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MAlTwpjI/AAAAAAAAACw/Nc8upJhhmTg/s1600-h/vagina5.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 226px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MAlTwpjI/AAAAAAAAACw/Nc8upJhhmTg/s400/vagina5.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300609228081243698" /></a><br />Genitals-External: <br />• Clitoris retracts upwards into the body, hiding under <br />the clitoral hood <br />• Labia swells even more, becomes thicker and changes to <br />a darker color <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MZquOy6I/AAAAAAAAAC4/PInvWh9dRd4/s1600-h/vagina6.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 309px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MZquOy6I/AAAAAAAAAC4/PInvWh9dRd4/s400/vagina6.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300609659031178146" /></a><br />Phase 3: Surrender <br /> <br />Continuing the process, the “Surrender” phase is when a <br />woman will have an orgasm. Now, I just want to make a note <br />that because this system is designed to bring about 3 <br />orgasms, we’ll be cycling through the Plateau and Orgasm <br />stages three times. <br /> <br />Stage 4: Orgasm <br /> <br />Pre-Orgasm <br /> <br />The pre-orgasm is the moment right before the orgasm. <br />You’ll learn what to do and what not to do to make <br />sure that she’ll successfully have an orgasm. <br /> <br />The Orgasm <br /> <br />The orgasm is when all the sexual tension you’ve built <br />inside of her is finally released.<br />hat You’ll See During the Orgasm Stage: <br /> <br />Overall: <br />• Sharp increase in heart rate and breathing rate <br />• Muscles contract throughout the body (including the <br />pelvic muscles, arms, legs, thighs, back, buttocks, <br />hands and feet) <br />• Toes may arch forward <br />• Panting breaths <br />• Uncontrollably shaking voice <br />• Her eyes are closed, nostrils are flared and she’s <br />unable to speak <br />• She may make bold, steady eye contract with you just <br />before she lets go <br />• She may look a little like she’s spellbound – soft <br />body, droopy limbs <br />• Her orgasm will last about 15-20 seconds, and as a <br />general rule, under one minute. <br />• She may begin sweating noticeably <br />• Breasts: <br />• Same as plateau stage <br />Genitals: <br />• Involuntary contractions of the uterus, anus and <br />vagina (if you have your finger or penis inside of her <br />vagina, it might feel like her vagina is “pushing” <br />them out) <br />• She may ejaculate <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MuJoHhrI/AAAAAAAAADA/KLpH0eObk6s/s1600-h/vagina7.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 309px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-MuJoHhrI/AAAAAAAAADA/KLpH0eObk6s/s400/vagina7.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300610010924418738" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-NAZefagI/AAAAAAAAADI/UkuFlpXxG_4/s1600-h/vagina8.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 264px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-NAZefagI/AAAAAAAAADI/UkuFlpXxG_4/s400/vagina8.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300610324416653826" /></a><br />Phase 4: Reflection <br /> <br />The last phase of the Orgasm Blueprint is Reflection. <br /> <br />There are 2 important aspects to this phase: one is <br />psychological (reflection), the other is physical <br />resolution). (<br /> <br />Reflection: <br /> <br />The Reflection Phase leads back to the Seduction Phase of <br />the next sexual encounter. In other words, what you do <br />here will have an impact on the next time you decide to <br />have sex. <br /> <br />Psychologically, you’ll want to reinforce the pleasure and <br />satisfaction she just had, so when the cycle loops back <br />into “Seduction” Phase, she’ll be thinking of you more, be <br />more attracted to you, and want sex more often! <br /> <br />Stage 5: Resolution <br /> <br />Physically, she’s coming down, and going through a stage of <br />“Resolution”. This is when the body is physically <br />returning back to its original state, and she’s coming down <br />from the orgasm. <br /> <br />What will you see during the Resolution Stage? Basically, <br />her body will be returning to its normal, un-aroused state, <br />going through a reversal that has been built up during the <br />previous stages. <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OSQidNuI/AAAAAAAAADQ/e080GiK-kQ4/s1600-h/vagina9.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 243px; height: 400px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OSQidNuI/AAAAAAAAADQ/e080GiK-kQ4/s400/vagina9.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300611730766640866" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OhfuEIxI/AAAAAAAAADY/2D6rZk-xXEA/s1600-h/vagina10.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 259px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OhfuEIxI/AAAAAAAAADY/2D6rZk-xXEA/s400/vagina10.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300611992539898642" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OuviLn_I/AAAAAAAAADg/DjLrSXopb-0/s1600-h/vagina11.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 400px; height: 228px;" src="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-OuviLn_I/AAAAAAAAADg/DjLrSXopb-0/s400/vagina11.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300612220123324402" /></a><br />As you can see, these four phases encompass the full <br />process of the female sexual needs and responses. <br />In our next chapter, we’ll get into what techniques to use <br />during each section, and how to properly perform those <br />techniques.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-35481780428140413122009-01-24T15:03:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:03:55.049-08:00SeductionThe goals of the “Seduction phase” are two-folds: <br />1. Creating Attraction <br />2. Creating Sexual Desire <br /> <br />First, I’d want to touch on the importance of creating <br />anticipation:Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-10793059044365131802009-01-24T14:04:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:04:34.918-08:00Creating AnticipationCreating the anticipation for sex is an ongoing process. <br />You should work at it constantly, even outside of the <br />bedroom. And learning to do it well can mean a whole lot <br />more sex… <br /> <br />Creating anticipation can begin as soon as you wake up in <br />the morning – whether or not you live together. It could be <br />a quick early morning suggestive cuddle, leaving erotic <br />notes in bound-to-be-found places, or sending kinky emails. <br />Give her a call and offer a kinky thought for the day. <br /> <br />If you really examine your daily schedule, you’d be <br />surprised how many opportunities to create anticipation and <br />desire will come your way. A smart lover knows how to take <br />full advantage of those options. <br /> <br />I think it’s important to interrupt for a moment to address <br />those readers out there who are in long-lasting <br />relationships: don’t think that just because you’ve lived <br />together, gotten married or even started a family that it’s <br />“okay” to devote less of your time and attention to this <br />phase of your lover’s sexual response. It’s a route that <br />can lead to all sorts of obstacles and road-blocks to a <br />satisfying sexual intimacy. <br /> <br />Just because the lover in your life may have been sleeping <br />with you for years (or even decades!) that doesn’t mean <br />that she’s suddenly lost the need for the flirtations and <br />sweet temptations that help build sexual tension and <br />frustration (the good kind!) <br /> <br />The more worked up you’re able to get her BEFORE you head <br />to the bedroom, the more eager and responsive your lover <br />will be. Indeed, the longer you’ve been with your partner <br />(and the more of your crap she’s had to put up with) the<br />more important it is to be sure you’ve properly covered <br />this base.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-10594558444612337172009-01-23T18:04:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:08:39.856-08:00How to Create (Sexual) AttractionThe first step in the Seduction phase is creating <br />attraction. <br /> <br />NOTE: Since I’m assuming you already have a partner that <br />you’re having sex with, I’m not going to dive into the <br />topic of “how to attract and date women” (you can find a <br />few helpful websites in my resources section). <br /> <br />But the attraction tips I’m going to share with you can <br />work on any woman, but is specifically designed for your <br />partner. <br /> <br />How to Use Eye Contact To Create Attraction <br /> <br />The very first thing that draws your partners’ attention to <br />you is eye contact. Her response to the right kind of eye <br />contact is automatic: attraction. <br /> <br />The level of attraction can vary from women to women. Eye <br />contact can simply spark a bit of sexual interest to full <br />blown sexual desire where she’s physically aroused and <br />wants to have sex with you. <br /> <br />Generally, making and holding eye contact with someone else <br />shows that you’re at ease with the other person, and that <br />you’re not intimidated. When your partner sees that you’re <br />making and holding eye contact with her, she’s going to <br />feel that you’re confident about yourself…and…the wheels of <br />attraction are going to start turning. <br /> <br />Tips: <br /> <br />• What you want to do is look into her eyes whenever <br />you’re talking, if she’s walking past you, or whatever <br />situation is appropriate. (You don’t want to <br />constantly look into her eyes while the both of you <br />are watching a movie…that would be weird). <br />• When you’re holding the eye contact with her, don’t <br />have a wide-eyed stare (you want to her believe you’re <br />a confident man, not a creep!).<br />• Instead, you want to be gazing in to her eyes. <br />To do this: <br /> <br />1. Open your eyelids so that they’re about 75% open. If <br />they’re open 100% (i.e. You’ve opened up your eyes as <br />wide as possible), you’re going to have that scary <br />looking stare. If they’re open too small, you’re only <br />going to look tired, or even intoxicated. At the 75% <br />mark is the right “look”. You’ll have that “seductive <br />look” that you might see in the movies. <br /> <br />2. Tilt your head downward slightly, so that your chin is <br />closer to your chest. This slight tilting of the head <br />will communicate that you’re sexually interested…this <br />will push her buttons, and she’ll start feeling this <br />too! (On the other hand, if you tilt your head <br />upwards instead, you’re expressing that you’re looking <br />down at her, and she’ll think you’re a cocky bastard. <br />Don’t do this.) <br /> <br />Here’s a few examples of the seductive eyes look: <br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-PnUvp5GI/AAAAAAAAADw/QKOSERtScrI/s1600-h/vagina12.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 211px; height: 234px;" src="http://4.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-PnUvp5GI/AAAAAAAAADw/QKOSERtScrI/s400/vagina12.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300613192184620130" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-P1JmDXxI/AAAAAAAAAD4/hx5J89rF7GE/s1600-h/vagina13.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 304px; height: 400px;" src="http://1.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-P1JmDXxI/AAAAAAAAAD4/hx5J89rF7GE/s400/vagina13.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300613429709725458" /></a><br /><a onblur="try {parent.deselectBloggerImageGracefully();} catch(e) {}" href="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-QCFVEggI/AAAAAAAAAEA/RlXPS3LY07k/s1600-h/vagina14.jpg"><img style="display:block; margin:0px auto 10px; text-align:center;cursor:pointer; cursor:hand;width: 300px; height: 400px;" src="http://2.bp.blogspot.com/_cBKe3BCkNPM/SY-QCFVEggI/AAAAAAAAAEA/RlXPS3LY07k/s400/vagina14.jpg" border="0" alt=""id="BLOGGER_PHOTO_ID_5300613651903054338" /></a><br />3. Try not to blink too much. If you have to, blink very <br />slowly. If you’re constantly blinking while keeping <br />eye contact, that’s a sign of nervousness, and she’s <br />going to feel that “vibe” from you. Once this <br />happens, the attraction will be lost. No blinking or <br />slow blinking is a sign of confidence. <br /> <br />4. Lastly, don’t break eye contact until she does! <br />Subconsciously, she will think that you’re the one in <br />control of the relationship, and that you are the <br />“man”.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2050118945308108095.post-7338959707187731772009-01-23T17:08:00.000-08:002009-02-08T18:09:14.084-08:00How to Create Sexual Desire In the BedroomWith eye contact, you’re already creating sexual desire in <br />her mind. In other words, you’ve started to get her to <br />think of sex. <br /> <br />But I’m going to show you how to increase it even more by <br />making some small changes in your bedroom. <br />The way the body responds to the environment (in this case, <br />the bedroom) can have a huge impact on her level of <br />arousal. <br /> <br />Also, the double benefit of the environment we’re going to <br />create is relaxation. Remember from the keys to success, <br />if she’s tense and not relaxed, it’s going to be almost <br />impossible for her to have an orgasm. <br /> <br />There will be a little bit of preparation work for this, so <br />you want to do this before initiating any physical <br />activity.Adamhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/15174042897249661384noreply@blogger.com0